With the holiday season upon us, things are still going well with my new friend. We’ve been dating for almost two months now and although we spend like 4 days out of the week together going out, cooking dinner over eat others’ houses (he’s a great cook by the way) and hanging out with friends (single and married), we still have not had “the talk”.
On one hand, I’m feeling kind of anxious like where is this going? On the other hand, I have to keep reminding myself we didn’t start dating until November, which was only last month. So what’s the rush?I guess part of me is concerned because of how much time we’re spending together. In past relationships, most of the time my exes were quick to want to lock me down and I knew when the talk was coming. With this one, although we’ve talked about marriage, children, religious beliefs and had other important building towards a relationship-type conversations, he’s still not provided me with any intentions of moving forward.
Last weekend, we went to brunch with his married friends, that was interesting within itself. I’d met the husband before on a few occasions but it was my first time meeting the wife. The four of us had a great time, I’m sure the bottomless mimosas helped.
The same weekend I went to a Christmas party his group of friends were hosting and invited my girlfriend and the guy she’s dating to mix things up a little. Again, I had a great time with his friends and they invited me to join them for a ski trip next month. At first I was hesitant but said why not, besides I haven’t been skiing in years so I figured it would be fun.
While, I can’t help but wonder why “the talk” hasn’t happened yet, deep in my heart I’m pretty sure this isn’t something temporary or part of “cuffing season“. I really like him so the anticipation is getting to me.
Update: I was supposed to post this last week but got caught up with life. So it’s official, I’m back off the market again. Honestly, didn’t expect that to happen so soon. Well, happy New Year!
Congrats, hope this is a good one.
Damn that was quick. LOL! Hope everything works out
LOL @Allykat. Yes, it kind of was but hopefully, that’s a good thing.
Very cool….enjoy!
Congrats on the new guy. He seems like he might be a keeper. He’s introducing you to friends and inviting you on trips, cooking for you, etc. If I were you I wouldn’t worry too much about “the talk” right now. Like you said it’s only been two months, which is a very very new relationship. Besides men tend not to want to “have talks” about that type of stuff. I’d focus on his actions. It seems like he’s showing you that he’s seriously interested in you and more than likely wants a relationship. Enjoy!
Good stuff! Enjoy!
Hey congrats on finding someone. You are in a new relationship so from my experience it’s best to just keep it easy and let the relationship develop organically instead of forcing anything. Sounds like you have the right idea though! Good luck!
Well done, wish some of our people where as lucky